Can people really be "on the same wavelength"?

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Everyone knows the feeling: a conversation that flows so naturally words almost seem unnecessary, a classroom where ideas spark effortlessly, or a concert where thousands of people move as one. But is there scientific evidence that people can literally be "on the same wavelength"?

In short

  • Suzanne Dikker studies brain rhythms during social interaction.  
  • Her research shows that being "on the same wavelength" is more than just a feeling—it’s a measurable brain process. 
  • The process may be strengthened, opening up potential applications for well-being, learning and therapy. 
  • The findings were published in Trends in Cognitive Sciences, one of the most prestigious journals in cognitive science. 

Scientists refer to this phenomenon as social synchrony: the alignment of brain rhythms, body language and speech patterns between people during social interaction. But can this sense of connection actually be measured?

An international research team led by Suzanne Dikker, professor at Ghent University and affiliated with New York University, has found a nuanced yet encouraging answer: yes.

From festivals to museums: research in the real world

Suzanne and her team deliberately took their research beyond the laboratory. Over the course of ten years, they used portable EEG headsets to record the brain activity of thousands of participants in museums, at festivals and in schools.

The researchers also collaborated with Latin American musicians Bad Bunny and Residente, recording their brain activity while they created music together. The EEG data clearly revealed synchronised brain activity during their performance.

"Our years of experiments show that we can consistently measure the seemingly elusive concept of being 'on the same wavelength'," Suzanne says.

Positive effects in the classroom

The research among secondary school students revealed a striking pattern. The more synchronised the students' brain activity was, the more positively they evaluated both one another and the lesson itself. Students whose brain activity became synchronised during class also remembered the learning material better.

"Social synchrony plays an important role in healthy social relationships and in learning," Suzanne explains. "There is growing evidence that face-to-face activities promoting interpersonal synchrony are essential for maintaining social cohesion within communities."

The next step: deliberately enhancing synchrony

Can we actively encourage the process of getting "on the same wavelength"? That is the question Suzanne and her colleagues are now exploring. By gaining a better understanding of how social synchrony emerges, they hope to develop insights that contribute to stronger social connections, better learning environments and new therapeutic applications.

Their research suggests that connectedness is not only something we experience—it is also reflected in the rhythms of our brains, our behaviour and our communication. According to the researchers, this may hold an important key to understanding how people learn, collaborate and build relationships.

The science behind the photo

For her research, Suzanne Dikker used The Mutual Wave Machine, an installation at the intersection of art and science. Two participants sit opposite each other while EEG sensors record their brain activity. The surrounding light patterns visualise their brain synchrony in real time.

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Want to experience what it feels like to be "on the same wavelength"? At De Empathiefabriek (The Empathy Factory) in the University Museum Utrecht, Suzanne invites visitors to experiment with brain waves themselves.

Suzanne Dikker

Suzanne Dikker has been a professor at the Faculty of Psychology and Educational Sciences at Ghent University since 2025. Her interdisciplinary research is part of the InterCom project, funded by a European Research Council (ERC) Consolidator Grant. The findings were published in Trends in Cognitive Sciences, one of the leading journals in cognitive science.

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Photo header: Sandra Kaas
Photo biography: Thaddeus Rombauer

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